“For an overseer, as God's steward, must be above reproach.”
Believe it or not, the Bible has a list of expectations when it comes to being a leader. You can find them in Titus, Timothy, and scattered throughout the New Testament.
One of those requirements for leadership is that a person who leads must be above reproach. What does that mean?
Many people think that it means that a leader must be perfect. If that were the case, there would be no leaders. No one is perfect except Jesus. Not even close.
So what does “above reproach” mean? Quite literally, it means, no one can accuse you, or that no one has any need to publicly get into your face about your screw-ups.
Notice what I’m saying. It’s not that you don’t screw up, it’s that you handle your screw-ups in a way that can’t be publicly scrutinized, or would hurt the reputation of Jesus Christ.
Let’s take a look at what that looks like.
First, when we make mistakes, being above reproach means we go public with a confession. Not only is this the right thing to do, but it also means that if you have already publicly confessed your sins, people can’t play “gotcha” with your sin life.
Second, being above reproach means that you deal with your sins in a direct and repentant way. You don’t hide behind excuses and try to justify your actions. You repent, and ask forgiveness from those that you hurt. You publicly proclaim why your actions were sinful and harmful, and ask forgiveness from those around you.
Third, it means being open about your shortcomings. This is very difficult, especially for leaders (who tend towards pride anyways), but essential for being above reproach. When people don’t expect you to be perfect, they won’t be surprised when you’re not. Many leaders think that having an air of invincibility about them is what they need to lead. I would disagree. I believe that an air of vulnerability is much better. It’s more human. And it’s realistic.
Remember that you’re not perfect, and no matter how hard you try, you won’t be this side of heaven. What separates you from other people is how you handle your sin. Are you above reproach, or are you one reveal away from downfall?
CHRISTIAN LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLE: A Christian leader deals with their sin in a public and humble way. They are above reproach because of the way they deal with sin.
Here’s a set of verses to meditate on today: 2 Samuel 11
Prayer: Lord, help me to deal with my sin in a way that will bring greater glory to You. Help me not to hide it or cover it up. Make me above reproach. In Christ’s Name, amen.
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